Research shows that 73% of women in western countries find very difficult to choose a perfect life partner, and they had been with 2 or 3 partners before settle with one. The life will be miserable if there is a disharmony between between couples. Thanks to Vedic astrology, the planetary setup during our birth can reveal important information about our married relationship.
Definition of perfect life partner in the modern context
Before understand the vedic astrological principles, let us be clear on the definition of perfect life partner in the modern context. The definition of loyal, ideal, and caring spouse is ever-changing. In olden days, when men are dominant over women, women were restricted to speak in front of the spouse(especially in eastern countries). During that time a women listening to spouse without any disagreement was considered to be an ideal wife. As woman entered the workforce, they are empowered today and started living independently in modern society, thanks to globalization and industrialization. So it is high time to rephrase the definition of ideal spouse,
When 7th lord and Venus are well placed with benefic aspection from Jupiter, Mercury, benefic 9th lord and well placed Moon the spouse will be loyal, loving, righteous and character of high moral standard
The ideal spouse is not the one who has the most commonality and one who listens to the spouse but one who understand and appreciate their difference of opinion between them.
With this definition let us get into the technical details.
The role of Venus - The planet of love
The Venus is the planet of love, affection, intimacy and it is also referred as kalatra karaka ie: indicator of the spouse. If Venus gets benefic aspection or conjunction then the native will get a caring, understanding and loving spouse. If Venus gets afflicted by malefics then the spouse will be nagging, immature and will always involve in conflicts.
The role of 7th house
In astrology, the 7th house is the indicator of marriage and life partner. When 7th lord is well placed with benefic aspection then the spouse will be loyal, understanding and caring. The 9th lord conjoined with 7th lord without any affliction will give a righteous and loyal spouse. If Jupiter occupies the 7th house or conjoins the 7th lord without any affliction, then the spouse will be matured person and will become moral support to the husband.
Summary
When 7th lord and Venus are well placed with benefic aspection from Jupiter, Mercury, benefic 9th lord and well placed Moon the spouse will be loyal, loving, righteous and character of high moral standard
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